Here is how this blog works. If you've got a question go ahead and ask it. You can post it anonymously or you can put your name at the end of your post. Your question can be anything you're wanting to know about. If you want to comment on someone's question you can also do it either anonymously or using your real name. So go ahead and "Ask Anything"!
Let me please remind all of you about the rules of this blog! If you can't make a comment in a constructive and POLITE way then please don't comment at all. This is the Ask Anything Blog, not the "I'm going to be rude because it's anonymous blog". Thanks again.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

The New Ask Anything Blog

Sorry everyone but I decided to just shut this blog down. People are just too mean.
I got a message that someone has started a new Ask Anything Blog for any of you who are interested in it.
Click here for the link

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Twilight Post

A week or so ago someone posted about the Twilight Series, by Stephenie Meyer. I am assuming it got deleted. I wanted to comment on it, but since it's gone I'll make my own post.

I am in love with these books! I just read them, I'd been putting it off, thinking to "Teenie" for me, but boy was I wrong. These books were so much more than a love story. Action, suspense, drama, but the best is definitely the attraction/love between Bella and Edward. I'm glad someone else loved them as much as I did (that is a grown adult!) Anyone else crazy for Edward?!?

Has anyone read The Host? I just barely bought it, and was wondering what anyone else thought about it. Thanks!

Sleep!!!

I have trouble sleeping sometimes... well most of the time... its a combo of stress, my husband snoring, and bad dreams... Does anyone have any advice?

Will the person who posted the "peeping husband" question please re-post your question.

Baby Nikolas


A very good friend of mine who lives far away from me in Texas is going through a life-altering ordeal with her husband and child. Her son, Nikolas, was born prematurely and is not doing that well. I am not there to be with my friend as I wish I could be. All I can off her and her family are my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could do more for them, but that is all I have to offer at this time.

I am asking that any of you out there who have the time and want to, please send your good thoughts or energy or prayers to my friend and her family and her son Nikolas. Whatever your religion may be, or lack thereof, it doesn't hurt to try.

Thank you very much.

This is a posting from their blog, which details some of the ordeal they are going through:

Nikolas Hospitalized

It has been a while since we did a post. This is due to us being in Austin at the Dell Children's Hospital in Austin. Nikolas had not been eating well for a few days and didn't grow at all for about a week. Our wonderful pediatrician made some calls and got him admitted to Dell Children's Hospital last Friday. He is still there and will most likely remain there for the rest of this week. He only breastfeeds for about 5 minutes and then is exhausted. My wife has been pumping and feeding him a bottle, which he sometimes takes and most of the time is not interested. On Sunday they inserted a feeding tube through his nose. If he doesn't eat well from the bottle, it goes into the tube. We have seen all of the specialist he needs to see, and they are great!! He has seen a Pediatric Neurologist, Endocrinologists, and a Geneticist. What we know at this point in time is limited. He definitely has kidney problems, and most likely he will need dialysis sometime in his life, we don't know how soon. He is severely anemic and trying to get that under control. His red blood cell count are low, and they are trying to get that under control. He has some thyroid issues and will most likely need thyroid supplementation. The Geneticist thinks there may be some chromosonal abnormalities that blood work will reveal in about 2-3 weeks. I am surprise he has blood to give. They have stuck him so many times. He has an IV in his head. He is such a difficult stick that no nurse wants to try. They call in the transport team, nurses from the helicopter flight team, to try to get blood. They even have a hard time. My wife doesn't go in when they draw blood, and I am about done watching them do it also. There is only so much a Dad can take of his son being held down and screaming his lungs out while they stick his head with a needle. Nikolas is being trooper!! He has had 2 MRI's to check for brain abnormalities, they were normal, 2 ultrasounds: one for his kidneys-the other to check his spine and the end of his spine (sacrum). 1 x-ray of his knee to check for calcification of his bones- have not heard results of x-ray. We will keep ya'll posted when we know! Thank you for all the prayers and fasting on our behalf. Our family definitely feels the support of those prayers. Thank You so very much.

Block Party

I am going to try this again...Please DO NOT ERASE THIS POST-there is no need to.

I am considering throwing a street party. Has anyone organized one and how did you do it etc...? Any tips or suggestions would be helpful!

I know this will be deleted but...

I feel like I've been lied to by my faith and I'm wondering if anyone else has also felt this way? I'm thinking I need to leave this church and cut my ties.

PLEASE STOP DELETING POSTS!!!

I am so confused at actions that have been taken towards posts and comments for this blog. I have noticed that alot of today's posts have been deleted. 2 in specifics. I made a post about a block/street party that I don't see anywhere and there was a post in regards to a little boy named Nikolas. I don't understand why someone thinks they have the right to delete such posts. Alot of the comments too that I read on Nikolas' post were so darn negative and un-needed. For those who didn't have positive things to say about the situation, why didn't you leave it all alone? There was NOTHING wrong with simply asking for prayers to be said on someone else's behalf. ESPECIALLY that of a baby who is quite sick (the mother is a close friend of mine and I had even spoken with her today about his health-he is not doing well). If a post or comment doesn't pertain to you or you can't be positive about it, leave it alone...please. I am still wondering why the post about a block party was deleted? Was there something wrong or offensive about that? There shouldn't have been. Will the person or people doing these things, please stop. I can understand why SJH wanted to pass admin rights on. It is crazy to see such immaturity.

Pools!!!

I am thinking about buying one of those easy set up pools at Wal-Mart....Not the one with the ring on top but the other one its 199$ Has anyone bought this pool.. if so how do you like it? Its it worth it?

Okay once again!!!

What ideas do you all have for fathers day?

Okay once again!!!

What the Hell.........

Those of you who are too immature to come here and post and comment need to leave... quit deleting other peoples post just because you don't agree... If you don't agree or like what is being said then just don't read it or comment on it. My gosh are we in High School... GET A LIFE AND QUIT DELETING OTHER PEOPLES BLOGS!!!!!

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Husband checks out other women

I know there have been posts about this certain topic already, but I thought I would post one too. Last night my husband and I were watching Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade and it seemed like he was practically drooling over the blonde woman in the movie. Is it normal for guys to go ga ga over other women when he is married, or is that considered cheating? I just really need to know. Thanks!

Marriage at a young age

How do you women feel about getting married between the ages of 18-20? I'm just curious to see how many women were married in that age range and how they felt about it. I know some women who got married very young and felt like they never had the opportunity to really experience single adulthood, and they blame it on their husbands for "taking that away from them" which i don't think makes sense but i wouldn't know because i am not married! i am however 18 and in a serious relationship. i'm just trying to get feedback incase he pops the question within the next year. thanks ladies!

Monday, June 9, 2008

Recipes!!!

I think it would be fun for everyone to share a favorite recipe.. I know I need new ones!!!!

Eek Sex Toys

So i have been married for 6 months. My husband loves sex(probably like every guy right?) well last night after we had finished and were just laying in bed, he asked me how i felt about us getting some sex toys. I honestly didn't know how to react to that. How do other woman feel? Should i say ok and get some toys or should i say no you get what you get with me? HELP need some advice.
Okay I am sorry if this is to personal. I just have questions, because I am scared. I have a doctors appointment on friday but I am worried, so I am wondering if anyone else has had these problems.

Over the last couple of years I have had reoccuring urinary tract infections. As of these last 2 months I have had what felt like burning in my bladder , along with burning down there (sorry if this is gross)I dont mean burning as in the skin, just this burning sensation. These last couple of weeks I have also felt bloated. I occasionally skip my period so that could be it. But I am worried it could be cervical cancer or ovarian cancer. I saw that urinary burning could be a sympton. Has anyone else experienced this? I wont know for sure until I am checked out at the doctor , but I would like some advice to put me at ease..
please help
thanks Ladies

Ouch

I have a personal question that I don't want to go into too much detail with. I have been married two and a half years with no children. I recently found that my husband has been cheating on me. Not sexual intercourse, but kissing and touching a woman that used to live by us. (She has since moved, this occured about 6 months ago). He came to me about this and told me just a few weeks ago. He claims he hasn't seen her since. He said the guilt has been eating him away. He is currently meeting with our bishop (we are LDS).
Has this happened to anyone? At first I was absolutely crushed, but I feel myself pulling away from him and wanting to be done with the marriage. I would never admit this to anyone else (this is anonymous) but I still love him madly. I just don't know if I can live day in and day out with him. I don't know if I want to eventually bring children into this horrible mess. Sometimes I think that it wasn't sex, so we could move on and be happy again. But another part of me is so angry and pissed that I feel like he doesn't deserve me any more. I have no idea what to do. We sleep in separate rooms but are going to a counselor. I just don't know if my heart is in it. Does anyone REALLY believe in second chances?

Losing it

My entire life I have wanted to be a mother. I felt that it was my calling. I've been married for five years and we are now trying to have a baby. Well, I have a great career and my husband and I travel often. I am loving life and just feel that everything is fine.
My neighbor just had a baby and I was watching her son last night. I had a sheer panic attack. I don't know if I can give up all my freedom all of a sudden. I feel like I'm comfortable and sucessful and I don't know what to do. Is this a normal feeling? I really want kids, but should I wait until I feel prepared?

Another one:

I have been working at my current job for a year and a half. I am single. I have never dated a co-worker before. Hadn't ever even given it a thought. I have been friends with this one guy since i started. We have become extremely great friends. He comes over and hangs out at my house and i go to his home(we both still live with our families). We have never been alone-like in a "dating situation". He had been dating a girl seriously and i was dating a guy semi-seriously. Well as fate or luck would have it both our relationships ended around the same time. We kind of comforted each other through the sadness we felt from the break-ups. Well recently the guy asked me how i felt about dating him. I said i had never really thought about it(even though i had). He works in a different department and has completely different hours than i do. I guess my question is, would it be okay if we tried dating? I looked today and our company doesn't have a policy about employees dating each other-as long as its not a manager dating someone under them. What does everyone think? Should we give it ago and try dating or just keep things the way they are and stay as good friends? Thanks for the input!!